He asked me and I said yes

No, I am not talking about mushy proposals or a wedding in waiting! Here I am talking about permissions, parenting and all this!!! When your kid asks you something and if your answer if 'no', there are high probabilities that he or she might not ask you again. Instead when she asks you something next time, say yes at first. And when she asks you again next time, give her a valid reason and the consequences of saying 'yes', then the kid will better understand it. There are different types of parenting, liberal, helicopter, disciplined et al. But, mine is a mix where I think about consequences first and then, behave! So that my child can follow suit.