So says the mommy of a lil soldier!!

Readers!!! I have promised you interesting posts that let you have a peek into the lives of different parents. So, here I am with an interview of a girl who suddenly transformed into a lady post wedding. Yes, she is a wife of a soldier, mommy of a 8 month old boy, writer by profession, painter by passion, cook by compulsion and what not. Let's begin!!!

What's the name of your baby, Apoorva? How old is he?
Rishaan, meaning a good human being, has just turned 8 months old. 

It's great to be a mother. How has motherhood changed you?
Motherhood was a complete re-birth for me. Not just my body, but my soul took a rebirth too. I have learned to be patient, first of all. They say, I have become all the more responsible too. A multi-tasker is the first quality that a mother must possess, so here I am. I can say that there comes a time that I even forget to breathe, but the smile on my little one's face rejuvenates me with all the happiness and positivity. 

Does the equation between a couple change after babyhood?
Certainly, it does, but only for the better. We are a stronger couple now. 

How does it feel being a wife of an army man?
Getting married to an Olive Green is a big responsibility, a thought which didn't even cross my mind when the preparations were going on. I was just a fresher out of college and suddenly, I was expected to behave all 'ladylike'. I would say that the wife of a soldier is as much a part of the army. We actually have our set of tasks and responsibilities that needs to be taken care of. There are unsaid protocols and rules for army wives and I make sure that I follow them. It's a blessing to be a soldier's wife. 

So, what is your day like?
I do a lot of things. I even cook. I say this because I was never into cooking. However, having hosted several parties which required me to cook for around 20 people at one go, has transformed me. I learnt so many things. I love to experiment with food (thanks to YouTube for being there). 

Then, I am an art lover and painting is what keeps me alive. Whenever time is on my side, I grab a brush and paint my mind. It is soothing. 

After having Rishaan, my love for writing took an all new turn. I am writing letters to my lil one, maintained a diary for him. Herein I teach him how to deal with different kinds of problems (God forbids) in the right manner; how to 'be yourself' in the fast changing world and many other things. I hope that he reads these letters when he grows up when he has a bunch of responsibilities on his shoulder.

And I even write professionally. Working from home isn't as easy as it seems from the other side.

Writing is refreshing. Isn't it?  
Writing for self helps me bring out my emotions. There comes a time when you need someone to talk to, when you have nobody around, or maybe when you feel people who would understand you are not present at the moment. Writing at this time helps me pour down my thoughts. Writing professionally helps me connect with people. I would say that because of my writing I got to befriend many people and this is an amazing feeling.  

What motivates you? Money or something else?
Honestly, it feels good to see your bank balance growing (winks) But, more than that it gives me immense confidence and sense of self dependence when I work. 

Is your family supportive?
Indeed. Else, I would not have reached where I am today!

Once Rishaan starts going to school, would you prefer joining an office full time?
If I get an opportunity, I would definitely love to join full time office but only in the field of writing.

What are your hobbies?
Dancing! I love to dance like crazy. It recharges me even in the bluest of times. Painting and writing (of course) 

You married quite early and had a baby too. Many girls prefer settling down early. People say it helps to build a better bond with the baby. What's your take?
My wedding happened in a very short span of time. I had to choose between career and family and I chose the latter, being high on emotional quotient. I desired to give complete attention to my baby. I want to see him blossom into a handsome man and a good human being, just like his name. If a baby is planned early, it helps on various fronts. As he grows up, I would get time to settle down into my career too. Sooner or later, every mother shares an equally strong bond with the baby, irrespective of the time they have them. 

Last but not the least, when are you coming to Ahmedabad?
'Keri nu ras' is calling me! And that's one of the many good things I love about Ahmedabad. Whenever I come I would love to relish some handmade Gujarati delicacies at your place for sure.

Haha, it was nice hearing from you, Apoorva. 
Thanks for letting me have a say. It's a nice feeling being interviewed.